
When They Come Back Home
My daughter has moved back home after 2 ½ years out on her own in the world. Bringing her back into the house should have been easy, but we all have to make adjustments.
1. That old saying “you can never go home” is not true. They can and will come home!
2. It’s not like they’ve forgotten how to get home. Even if you’ve moved they can still find you.
3. The deeper meaning of the saying is that once you make a big life change, like leaving your parent’s house, things will not be the same should you return.
4. Boy is that part true! Now that she’s and adult our interactions are very different yet some things will never change.
5. Siblings will always bicker, often over the same old issues.
6. Just getting in the car together involves a big debate over who gets to ride “shot gun”.
7. When offering motherly advice or helpful suggestions, I am told that she is independent and can take care of herself now. But there are always “buts”.
8. Like when we all go out to eat, I’m automatically expected to pick up the tab.
9. There are still ways to work it to my advantage. Her being broke comes in handy as a bribe when I don’t feel like running errands.
10. And my son now has another person with a car to chauffeur him around.
11. Still, I’d forgotten how much stuff she has and how messy she is with all that stuff.
12. My son’s “man room” aka video game den has now been invaded by crystal vases, artificial flowers, and fru-fru knickknacks.
13. And sharing a bathroom with her is no fun!
I’ve threatened the rest of the family and told them not to make her too comfortable here because I want her to get back out…soon! LOL!
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